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Settling into Routines in SLC – Bearfoot Idea

When you’ve been following alongside on these life updates, you already know that July within the van obtained a bit of tough. Sick canine and a 5-month outdated child with obvious insomnia had me feeling fairly run down.

After all all of this occurred as distant from dwelling as we deliberate to go this summer season – greater than midway up Vancouver Island and a 20+ hour drive again to Utah (which is extra like 40 hours in the event you think about the entire stops we’ve got to make for the child).

Our journey dwelling began from Whistler, BC. It took us a full day of touring to get to the border. Our poor child Herbie had his first tooth pop by way of that day and was clearly in quite a lot of ache.

Our final day in Whistler earlier than starting our drive dwelling

By the point we reached Washington, he was in full-blown panic mode. Fortunately my shut good friend from school lives in Bellingham, so we booked it to her home the place we deliberate to park for the night time. 

Whereas we had been there, I obtained a message from a BFT Group Member who requested “why don’t you simply fly dwelling and Ryan can drive the van?”

Fly? On my own with the child? No approach. That sounded approach too scary. What would I do if I needed to pee (or worse poop…haha) in flight? Or what if he screamed the whole time? What would my seat neighbors consider me breastfeeding? That final query I wasn’t actually nervous about, however nonetheless, all of it felt fairly intimidating. 

After I introduced it as much as Ryan, he thought it was an awesome thought. It doesn’t matter what occurred, two hours on a aircraft with the child was going to be higher for everybody (together with the child), than making him endure the lengthy drive dwelling whereas teething. 

My first flight with the child

Fortunately I didn’t should deliver quite a lot of baggage since I used to be flying straight dwelling. So I checked the carseat after which introduced our stroller, child service and our diaper bag on the aircraft. I boarded early and obtained located and crossed my fingers for all the pieces to go easily. 

Exhausted on the airport and able to be dwelling

I heard that feeding throughout take-off and touchdown might help infants clear their ears, in order that’s precisely what I did. The remainder of the time he both slept or stared at my neighbors who all thought he was cute. 

Earlier than I knew it, we landed in Salt Lake Metropolis, and everybody was complimenting him on how properly he did on the aircraft. 

Phew. That was an enormous aid to test that mom-adventure off my (bucket)listing. 

Slowing Down and Establishing routines

I’ve by no means been superb at sustaining routines. Even earlier than changing into a blogger once I lived in Washington DC, the one routines I ever actually established had been ingesting my morning espresso, exhibiting up for work on time, and often attending after work joyful hours. 

Within the 9 years I’ve been self-employed, my potential to maintain a routine has solely gotten worse. Being on the go on a regular basis and continuously altering environments makes it fairly tough.

As of late, I’ve accepted that I’m not likely a creature of behavior. I attempt to transfer my physique, eat a wholesome plant-based weight-reduction plan, get some work completed, drink water, and go to mattress at an affordable hour…but when these issues don’t occur, I don’t beat myself up over it. 

After we are within the van, each single day is totally different relying on the place we get up, what chores we’ve got to do, what enjoyable issues we’ve got deliberate, and the way far we’ve got to drive. Some mornings are sluggish with time to cook dinner a scorching breakfast, learn a ebook and ship some work emails. Different days, we get up, crush a bowl of cereal and hit the street. After all all of this was pre-baby. 

Now, with Herbie in tow, any small semblance of a routine within the van that we did have went out the window. And in that course of, I began to comprehend that routines usually are not solely good for a child, they’re completely needed.  

That is what our routine appears to be like like as of late (minus the dwell Phish present on the television)

Up till now, Herbie’s naps have taken place on the fly. Whereas we had been within the van, that might have been within the child service, in a parking zone, in his automotive seat, or within the stroller. We by no means put him on a schedule, as a result of for one, we didn’t actually understand how. And likewise, we wished him to adapt to our way of life, not the opposite approach round. 

After a month of him waking up each single hour in the course of the night time, we had been paying the value for having him to function on our phrases.

I’ve come to the conclusion that his horrible night time sleep within the van was attributable to him being 1) overtired and a pair of) overstimulated. His lack of napping routine meant that he was by no means napping lengthy sufficient or deep sufficient.

On prime of that, he was continuously being thrown into new conditions and environments  – as a result of that’s what van life is all about. After all he can’t discuss to inform me but, however my new-found motherly intuition tells me that this was overwhelming for the little man.

The day earlier than I made a decision to fly dwelling with Herbie after a month of no sleep

I’ve began to comprehend that touring with our child was for us, not for the child. I used to be wanting to get again on the street. Again to my “outdated life” the place journey and journey was my prime precedence. So I attempted to juggle that with my new precedence of caring for a child, and it was a hell of lots tougher on the child than I anticipated.

Calling it egocentric is possibly a bit of too excessive. A lot of our time on the street he was his joyful, smiling self. I’m certain in the future he’ll have a look at the pictures and suppose, “wow that was cool my dad and mom did van life with me once I was 4 months outdated.” But, on this present second, he appears that he’d reasonably be dwelling in his acquainted surroundings.

The excellent news is that since we’ve been dwelling in Salt Lake, his night time time sleep has vastly improved. We’re doing our greatest to stay to a nap schedule, and it actually does see to be working.

I virtually really feel like we’re within the new child stage once more, sticking largely round the home to work round his napping routine. He’s nonetheless not one of the best napper, and solely appears to wish to nap in a darkish room whereas being held by me after breastfeeding.

Setting him up for napping success implies that we’ve needed to dial again what we hope to perform in a day. Although I’ve missed getting outdoors this month and I fear how not being on the street impacts my potential to create the content material wanted for my weblog and enterprise, I do know that slowing down is what’s greatest for our household proper now. 

Herbie moved to a full-sized crib this month

I do know fairly quickly we can be out mountaineering and tenting once more, and I’ll be lacking this tremendous particular child part the place we are actually his complete world. 

As we’ve established some new routines for the child, I’ve additionally tried to get again on monitor with routines of my very own. For the final 6 months, I’ve been letting my physique heal from my being pregnant and c-section and haven’t actually completed something too strenuous. So in August, I lastly jumped again on my Peloton. I’ve been doing a few of Jess King’s home rides and Dennis Morton jam band rides. Dennis at all times performs Phish songs which will get me tremendous pumped. 

Getting again on my Peloton has made me really feel actually good

I additionally began a mediation problem arrange by good friend Courtney to meditate for 40 days straight in celebration of her fortieth birthday. Like her, I’m additionally turning 40 in September, and that is the proper approach for me to ring in a brand new decade. 

I’m loving getting again into an everyday meditation routine

In Different Information

Right here’s just a few different enjoyable issues I obtained as much as in August.

My mother and bonus-dad got here from Idaho to go to us for just a few days. We took them as much as Alta to see the colourful wildflower bloom, adopted by lunch our favourite vegan restaurant referred to as Candy Hazel. We spent the remainder of the weekend enjoyable at dwelling, so they may spend some high quality time with Herbie.

my mother and I at Alta
The blooms had been beautiful up at Alta this 12 months

Subsequent, our little man began solids this month. We’ve been making his child meals at dwelling utilizing the child meals maker we obtained as a present. The most important hit up to now has been beets with candy potato, apple, chia seeds, and pumpkin seeds. Since we comply with a plant-based weight-reduction plan and are elevating Herbie this fashion too, we’re utilizing the information within the Plant-Primarily based Juniors cookbook to ensure he’s getting all the pieces he wants.

I’ve additionally been having enjoyable within the kitchen making treats for Ryan and I. A brand new favourite snack I whipped up are these no-bake power bites made with peanut butter, flax seed, oats, chia, coconut, chocolate chips and honey. These would make a nice snack to tackle the path.

Lastly, we’re so fortunate right here in Salt Lake to have a bunch of associates who’re unimaginable musicians. They play often round city and on the ski areas, making it simple for us to get out and luxuriate in some dwell music.

This month our associates Meandercat performed at Brighton and The Pour performed at Snowbird. We took Herbie up there along with his noise cancelling headphones so we might all boogie down.

Having fun with Meandercat play at Brighton Ski Space

Okay that’s it for August! Thanks for maintaining with me and these updates. I actually get pleasure from writing them and sharing a extra private facet of my life. I’ll have some thrilling issues to share in September, so keep tuned!

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